A critique partner told me once I had too many social issues in the draft of my romance novel. At the time, my protagonist was a multiracial woman of color in academia who encountered sexism and racism in the book as well as having experiencing with dating violence. Throughout the book, she made mention of her racial identity when the love interests were getting to know each other. The love interest had his own experiences exploring consent. At the time, I took it as 'too many subplots' and skimmed it back, but in retrospect, I think about that phrase: too many social issues.

My protagonist's views of the world have been shape by the way she's experienced it--racism, sexism, violence and identity all together. At the same time, it's a romance novel, the book isn't about any of those. They've shaped the person falling in love. What is the balance for other #ownvoices authors?

As we strive to write real and complex characters, especially characters of color or who hold marginalized identities, what's the line in fiction about the intersectionality of our characters identities and the nexus of their experiences? I've always written mt characters as close to how they might actually live as possible, but aside from my wonderful beta readers and friends, I haven't yet had to sell my book to anyone. I guess time will tell!

Despite using it for work on and off for years, I've recently discovered that I love Twitter.
Yes, I realize I am late to the party and all the cool kids left for Insta, SnapChat and whatever other social media platform blossomed in the last 30 seconds, but I'll admit it: I'm addicted to hashtag games.

​My favorite lately is #sixwordstory, a wonderful throwback to Six Word Memoirs and the accompanying book.

So, what better way to introduce myself in post #1, then with a few six word stories.

• Moved often. Love staying home now.   We moved a lot when I was growing up​ and between college and work, I'd been all over. Now, I really enjoy staying home.
• Read romance, also have a PhD.  Gasp...educated women read dirty books, too? Yep. 
• Thank God my child sleeps well.  I deeply love my child...and I am so happy when he goes to bed.
• I'm not bossy, I'm the boss  Ok, that's a straight up Beyoncé quote, but it's fitting
• I don't know what I'm doing.  I wrote a book and now I'm trying to publish it...and despite all my research, this seems to be how I end most days.